wow this thread jumped along fast. Hurray for shipping.
@Sereg and Purple: Well, I have several gay ships actually, but many of them are background so I can effectively invent all the chemistry and the combination of needs that I need to make it work. And if people's reactions are anythign to go by, I do a good job of it.
The only gay ship I have who've ever appeared in a speaking roll is Hoops/Dumbbell, and believe it or not I
do have my reaosning for that.
First of all, they've already demonstrated to having been friends - probably best friends - for a long time. This, of course, doesn't necessarily mean a relationship. I feel no romantic attraction to any of my friends, male or female, even the ones I've known since I was very young(In fact that can actively inhibit it due to the Westermark effect, but I digress)
The point is, we know that they can tolerate each other's company, have similar interests, and get along well in general. Moreover, I think their behaviours can actually compliment one another really well romantically. Dumbbell obviously takes a leader roll there - Hoops always gave me the impression he was just going with the flow, as he was generally slower with jabs and never the opener. In general he seems to have a much more relaxed personality. So I imagine he would look up to Bell in a way, certainly he would respect him. At the same time, I also feel that his go-with-the-flow attitude could be a leavening influence on Dumbbell, someone who doesn't directly feed into his behaviour, keeping him from getting into a feedback loop.
In short? They work as a couple because their traits compliment each other very well, so they balance one another out. Bell fills in Hoops' natural lack of assertiveness, while Hoops helps Bell to relax. Each of them is at their happiest emotional state when the other is around, or at least present in their life.
And this is the point when someone comes in and tells me that's actually an unhealthily co-dependant relationship, no doubt...