Honestly I think the bulk of Pinkie's problem is simply that she needs friends. Not friends to be there and to keep her stable, but friends to help her along to being truly stable. Think about it - she went off the deep end because she thought nopony liked her. She probably always knew to some degree that most ponies only liked her for her parties, and that they really never cared about her on any deeper level. So she always played up the zaniness, hoping that it could at least keep them around. She wanted ponies to at least see her, to recognize her, to care about her, and the parties were the only way she knew how.
Then along come the mane cast. They're truly close to her, and want to get to know her. "Great!" she thinks, they really like her! But she keeps playing up the zaniness, because it's all that she understands now. Maybe she still thinks that that's what they like about her. Then suddenly they don't want to be a part of one of her zany antics - her only strategy is failing! What could be wrong? Did they never really like her? Did anypony? the only way she knows how to attract friends has failed her. She already thought that nopony ever really saw her deeply, and now they don't even want the surface Pinkie. So she invents new friends, friends who can be what she always really wanted - friends who won't judge, will see what she really is and stay anyways. Did you notice that for whatever else, Pinkie was remarkable
calm while talking to her party guests? Calmer than she's ever been?
Pinkie doesn't need friends who like her on the surface. She doesn't need friends who like her parties, or her zany antics. She needs friends who like
her. She needs her friends to see her at her absolute worst, a point where she could never get up on her own, and
still be there with her. Only when that happens will she start to understand that she can make really friends, not with zany antics or parties, but by simple being Pinkie. She needs to be shown that ponies can love the real her before she starts to calm down and actually
be the real her.
She needs you, Ginger
edited 30th Dec '11 1:11:49 PM by kegisak